October 2019 – Coffee and Inclusion

Thoughts on Inclusion: Church

October 7, 2019October 10, 2019

Sometimes, it feels like we are endlessly campaigning for inclusive opportunities. I don’t feel that we are unreasonable in our requests, but often, it’s uncharted territory and a learning experience for all involved. It can be frustrating and lonely, insisting that Alex is capable of participating in activities that so many of us take for granted.

But other times, inclusion just comes along so naturally and I can sit back and admire how easy it can be. Alex loves serving as an usher at King Avenue UMC, and his involvement is welcomed and embraced with smile after smile as he greets people, passes out bulletins, and helps collect the offering.

As I watched him this week, I realized that his turn to usher this time falls in Down Syndrome Awareness Month. It wasn’t planned that way, but what a timely illustration that people with Down syndrome are equal and able members of their community.

We are grateful for our inclusive and supportive church family. Inclusion truly matters there, for everyone, and it is a joy to spend time in such a wonderful environment.

This is What Inclusion Looks Like: Soccer

October 3, 2019October 15, 2019

Tonight, at the varsity soccer match at my son’s high school, Down Syndrome Awareness Month was recognized. I wrote this brief PSA, which was read right as the first half ended:

“October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month. Team manager Alex is proud to be part of the Olentangy Berlin soccer family, and he also happens to have Down syndrome. He and his family want everyone to know that people with Down syndrome are equal and able members of their communities, and they are grateful for the support and friendships Alex has at Berlin. Please join them in their mission to show the world that inclusion matters. Thank you, and as Alex says, ‘Go Bears!’”

I missed grabbing a video of the announcement, but as it was read, Alex was jogging alongside his teammates, cheering them on and getting high fives from his peers.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t tear up a bit.

This is what inclusion looks like.

Thoughts on Inclusion: Church

This is What Inclusion Looks Like: Soccer

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